#178 – Emily Oster on what the evidence actually says about pregnancy and parenting

In today’s episode, host Luisa Rodriguez speaks to Emily Oster — economist at Brown University, host of the ParentData podcast, and the author of three hugely popular books that provide evidence-based insights into pregnancy and early childhood.
They cover:
- Common pregnancy myths and advice that Emily disagrees with — and why you should probably get a doula.
- Whether it’s fine to continue with antidepressants and coffee during pregnancy.
- What the data says — and doesn’t say — about outcomes from parenting decisions around breastfeeding, sleep training, childcare, and more.
- Which factors really matter for kids to thrive — and why that means parents shouldn’t sweat the small stuff.
- How to reduce parental guilt and anxiety with facts, and reject judgemental “Mommy Wars” attitudes when making decisions that are best for your family.
- The effects of having kids on career ambitions, pay, and productivity — and how the effects are different for men and women.
- Practical advice around managing the tradeoffs between career and family.
- What to consider when deciding whether and when to have kids.
- Relationship challenges after having kids, and the protective factors that help.
- And plenty more.


















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